A good day

a must see!

While I was having dinner with a friend at a street stall last night; we were approached by a middle aged man who was selling miscellaneous accessories and typically I’d refuse but I asked what it was for and he said it’s because his home is flooded. So, I took a look at these little charms and asked if he has a rabbit because that is my Chinese astrology sign. He spoke English very well which was quite unexpected and told me “ah, you are born in the year of a rabbit — you are a very lucky girl and you will live a very happy life.” We continued to chat for a bit and before he left he said to me, ”

“…live everyday as if it was the first day of your life AND the very last day.””

We’ve all heard this before but I think for most of us it’s a challenge to fully embrace it. Coincidentally, as soon as I got home I decided to check out what’s new on TED and the video above was the first video I watched: A TED talk by Louie Schwartzberg on “Nature. Beauty. Gratitude.” Which had the same exact quote within the talk and it was such a nice coincidence — so, I had to share it ๐Ÿ˜›

Thanksgiving was a couple days ago but it didn’t really feel like it since I am far far away from home again this year. However — I did ask myself a few times what I’m thankful for and I just could not pin point one thing in particular.

After seeing this beautiful TED talk — I’d say, I am just so thankful to be alive.

So grateful for the chance to witness beauty in it’s purest form — all the new places, flavors, people, cultures, languages, colors, sounds, laughter & love.

So, incredibly thankful for life. and all the simple things that make it so beautiful. Including you!

Judge your successes by which you are enjoying peace, health and love

…because these are the intangible things which will remain within your consciousness.

A few photos from a very “successful” year. enjoy.

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The best trips are unplanned

Here is a little peak into my “plan” of spending 7 days in the North of Vietnam and instead spent 17 days traveling from North to South of Vietnam.

A couple weeks ago I planned a trip to Vietnam to renew my Thai Visa, visit an artisan village which employs victims of human trafficking and to see a bit of Northern Vietnam. After finding a round trip ticket for 70$ I was set to leave for a solo trip to Vietnam! A good friend of mine wanted to join as he has never been to Vietnam and upon arriving in Hanoi at the airport I met two Austrian guys traveling through South East Asia for 4 months and an awesome couple from Spain ending their travels in Vietnam — we shared a taxi into town, spent a day wandering the old quarter of Hanoi and decided to continue traveling together.

In one week, we traveled together to Ha Long Bay and spent a beautiful sunny day on a boat to ourselves sailing through the bay for 20$ — The scenery here was surreal with an incredible seascape of limestone pillars.


Hooray for $1 canoeing!

The same night we took a night bus back to Hanoi and on to another public bus to Ha Giang (approx 300km further north). There, we rented a few motor bikes and continued to head further north in search of Mrs. Mai’s Village and boy was I glad they came along because I would’ve never made it there on my own — at least not with MY motor biking skills O_O

After many months of sharing stories and posting photos of my visits to these various villages — it was very special to have a few friends there with me. They were amazed with the entire process of traditional textile weaving, village lifestyle and the generosity of the people — Mrs. Mai showed us around her village, introduced us to some of the women she employs and her entire weaving operation; we ended our day at the village with home cooked pho by Mrs. Mai & her neighbor.

I was inspired by an article written about this woman and her husband created a weaving co-operative over 10 years ago to support and employ victims of human trafficking. I feel very fortunate that we were able to find her remote village and the chance to meet her. Now — I am thinking of how to help her and her co-operative. Read about her story here!


Having Pho with Mrs. Mai and her neighbor

The same day; we had to say good bye to Mila & Miguel who were headed back home to Spain after a year abroad. Tor, Ronnie, Walter and I continued on to the furthest Northern province in Vietnam, driving through some of the most spectacular scenery I’ve seen in SE Asia –passing through Don Van Market, several tribal villages, stopped at a school in a remote community and spent some times with the kids — overall a great ride through gorgeous natural scenery.

Don Van market. This market was full of charm, vibrant ethnic minorities in their beautiful traditional clothing.


A small school in a remote community.


Rice fields in Ha Giang

A day before I was to go back to Bangkok I received an e-mail from my sister to contact my paternal grandfather. I’ve had no relationship with my dad all my life and knew nothing of my paternal family…so I was rather shocked to discover that I still have a grand father alive. I called the number and nervously told my auntieย  who answered the phone — “I am grandpa Duong’s 24 year old grand daughter”……many questions followed and eventually I decided to post pone my flight home and make my way to Saigon to see my Grandfather and paternal relatives. My pals Ronnie & Walter had planned to travel by motor bike from Hanoi to Saigon and invited me to come along if I just pitched in a bit for gas and steer them away from restaurants serving thแป‹t chรณ (dog meat) — and of course I agreed.

My wonderful traveling buddies for a few days and trusted motor bike drivers — all packed and ready to head out from Hanoi.

We traveled approximately 600km by motor bike in total; through rain, shine, dusty traffic, cows crossing and again through beautiful scenery. We drove on average a little over 100KM each day until reaching the center of Vietnam — Hue. Along the way we stopped by a few towns to rest and explore a bit. Our frist stop was in Ninh Binh to rest for a night, spent an evening playing badminton at a sports center in the city of Vinh, experienced a very rainy ride through to Dong Ha and to Hue the following morning.ย  I never thought I’d get to travel through half of Vietnam by motorbike and though our bums were extremely sore — it was definitely a memorable ride and really one of the best ways to explore a country.


I had no idea what to expect of Hue since I didn’t originally plan to go there but it is such a beautiful city rich with history. Unlike Hanoi and Saigon, there was much less pollution and traffic.

Trang Tien Bridge

Hangin out at the Imperial Forbidden city to catch the sunset

Eventually I made my way to Saigon for a couple days with family before heading back to Bangkok.

Admittedly, I’d been bitter towards my father nearly my entire life because he was not a part of it. Oddly enough with all the changes that I’ve been through this year and the outlook I’ve adopted; there is not an ounce of bitterness within me and there could’ve been no better time for me to finally meet my paternal family. As I arrived in Saigon I gave them a call and my cousin came to pick me up, neither of us knew how the other one looked but as soon as we saw each other we knew we were family. As soon as I arrived at my grand father’s home and looked at all my aunties and my grand father — it felt so natural. They were all blown away that I was able to speak Vietnamese though I was born in America, shocked at how “dark” I am and that I was carrying such a large backpack, haha. Immediately they pulled out a huge box of photos and began showing me photos of my immediate family before their journey to America after the Vietnam war. I even got to see so many photos of my father throughout his childhood and as a man; I had the biggest smile on my face the entire time with endless tears falling down my face as I was overwhelmed with so many mixed emotions; mostly so happy for this opportunity but also my heart ached to see photos of the siblings I had lost. My parents came to America in the early eighties leaving everything behind in Vietnam. They lost one of my older brothers due to a severe illness; gave birth to me and about two years ago I lost my eldest sister. In total there should be five of us and looking at all their childhood photos made me realize that we never even had the chance to take one photo together.

I spent a brief couple days with them sharing so many stories and enjoying a few nice home cooked meals. While I was there I even received a call from my father and am now looking forward to welcoming him into my life.

My siblings in birth order not including myself as they have never even seen a photo of me!

My 94 year old Grand father

My pops (on the right), as a young man…what a stud!

My parents when they were dating ๐Ÿ˜›

This was definitely a “spur-of-the-moment” trip in every aspect. A year ago this would’ve never happened because I always had to know the details of what’s coming next. This trip was the longest of all my travels this year and one that I will hold dear in my heart. It allowed me to really push my comfort levels, see so many different aspects of the country which my family is from, finally meet my paternal family and mostly appreciate my Vietnamese heritage. It was such a pleasure traveling in a country where I can speak the language and introduce my pals to a few “strange” Vietnamese customs and foods; was quite entertaining ๐Ÿ˜‰ย  Altogether, one heck of an exhausting but amazing trip. — until next time!

Oh! and I officially got sick for the very first time this year — food poisoning!! Luckily this came at the end of the trip but the five days that followed were not pretty. >.<

A few more photos of my travels through Vietnam, enjoy!

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Post StartSomeGood UPDATE!

Yikes! It’s been nearly a month since our fund raising campaign has ended — time is going by much too quickly! Finally a long overdue update on our results and what we’ve been up to.

Results of our campaign!

At the end of our 45 day campaign on StartSomeGood.com; we raised a total of $5,660 from 95 contributors!! I can’t say enough how humbled I am by the entire experience. As I’ve said before, I had no idea what to expect when launching this campaign and I am pleased to say that the outcome was a great success not only because we were able to raise some seed funds but because we we able to get some people thinking — a bit differently. At least this is my hope. All in all, the campaign exceeded my expectations and the biggest lesson I learned is simply to keep sharing and giving (genuinely, without any expectations) — you’ll be surprised how much you will receive in return.

Soon, I will be participating in an interview with StartSomeGood.com about the details of our campaign, stay tuned!

In the mean time, I’ve put together a little slideshow with all the photos I could find of the people who donated — (without names). I wanted to make this to show the diversity among our contributors. Our campaign reached various regions throughout the world — we had contributions from Asia, Europe, North America and Australia. It’s been a pleasure to receive support from such a diverse range of people; many of whom I met during very different stages of my life (school, work, social gatherings and travels). I even had a donation from a friend I used to copy homework from throughout elementary school, which I found so ironic! haha (you know who you are ๐Ÿ˜›).ย  Also from friends’ parents and families, people I haven’t seen or spoken to in years, a sweet gal whose blog I used to stalk for travel inspiration has somehow found my blog and even made a donation —

times like these throughout the campaign made it so worthwhile.

I made an effort to not mass market my campaign and push it upon anyone; rather, I had many nice conversations with people not just about my campaign but life in general and that was by far the most rewarding part of this experience. It’s unfortunate that many of us have hundreds or even thousands of friends on our various social media networks but just a handful are people we really “know.” For me, this campaign gave me a reason to reach out to many people on a more human level; allowing me to share something I’m passionate about and getting to “know” some of my friends and family as well! ๐Ÿ™‚ Thank you all for the love & support.

Many have asked if they can still donate or support since we did not reach our total goal of $8,100 — YES!!

we are still raising funds and your help will allow us not only to get our business going but for us to focus our time and efforts solely to our start-up. Click the photo for more details on how you can help! We still have rewards to give away as well!


I have yet to make any purchases towards our business as I am very cautious about spending the funds!

For the most part, the tasks which I think I can learn — I do it. It’s a lot more time consuming and often frustrating but I know it’s important for me to learn and understand all aspects of starting a business. In the past four weeks since our campaign has ended, the next step was to get our shop up and running. So, I’ve been working on our e-commerce site, learning about eco-packaging, designing our own packaging and promotional materials (tags, business cards), teaching myself (via online tutorials) illustrator and photo shop so that I can learn how to design our own promo material, website, look book and line sheet for buyers, working with my suppliers on our orders, planning another trip to visit the artisan villages AND to top it off…….my tourist Visa is going to expire in December which means I’ve been “planning” my trip home to the states.

Needless to say — I’ve had quite a bit of work to do and very thankful for all your support which is allowing me to do all of this.

Here is a glimpse into some of the things I’ve been up to (the prettier side of things) ๐Ÿ˜‰

Learning about sustainable packaging.


Pretending that I know how to design….because I’d rather not pay for a designer; it’s the Chinese in me. Read more about the status and ideas of our packaging here.


Learning how to create a line sheet using illustrator. I now have even MORE respect and appreciation for those who has helped us in creating our fliers and minor photo edits until now. However, I do love the fact that I can now say I (kinda) know how to use illustrator ๐Ÿ˜›

What is this for? I hope to have retailers carrying our goodies; so I’ve thrown this together for buyers. We’re already getting inquiries and I can’t wait to send this baby out ๐Ÿ˜‰


As promised — I try to squeeze in a little time each day to write our thank you letters and figuring out the best way to distribute our rewards. We’re very excited to send our gifts out!


Looking through pretty fabric swatches for some Oimei Co. accessories to be made. All naturally dyed — Aren’t the colors beautiful!


Attended a handicraft fair here in Bangkok. The fair had various booths representing different artisans and their crafts throughout Thailand. Always a great place for some inspiration ๐Ÿ™‚ Below is a pillow case made by traditional Batik dying method.


In case you have not heard — much of Thailand is currently facing terrible flooding and is expected to hit Bangkok in the next few days. I’ve spent some time with a few friends raising funds for this….and since this is making things a bit slower for us to have our requests processed; I’m headed to Hanoi then on a train to Ha Giang, Vietnam where I’ve discovered there is a weaving co-operative that employs women who have been victims of human trafficking. I’ve always wanted to work with people of my own heritage and am very excited to share what I learn during this trip!

To wrap up this post — I’d like to say again that as things progress — it keeps getting scarier than ever and I’m really beginning to see that entrepreneurship is like swimming upstream. Not only am I faced with the obstacles of starting a small business for the first time with limited funds and knowledge. But I am constantly bombarded with questions about what’s to come next (and sometimes I just want to shout “I DON’T KNOW but I’M TRYING!!”) — especially from my mother who thinks her baby daughter has gone completely bonkers. All this, combined with the various life’s decisions we’re all faced with is……..freakishly overwhelming!

Most people don’t “believe” until they see money ย — to put it blatantly. And, this is what I find frustrating but it’s also what motivates me. I know that the concept of building a socially conscience business is still quite new but this is what drives me. I’ve never had this much determination in anything else — I’m often up until the crack of dawn everyday and will continue to work or think about work until late night because I think about the bigger picture. I firmly believe that true success and fulfillment can not be achieved by pursuing money alone.

What keeps me going is reminding myself to take things one at a time. And that no decision is really permanent because at any moment I am able to change or alter my direction and my thinking.

Most importantly, the people who inspired this from the very beginning — the people living in the rural poor. They remind me how fortunate I am to have access to so many resources and the choice to do something I am passionate about even if it means a few failures. They remind me how lucky I am to not just “want” to help others but that I have the capability to do so…even if it means starting small. And of course, the wonderful people who have supported my little initiative! You all give me a HUGE reason to keep making progress! This is what helps me re-focus when the road ahead gets blurry.

Before I get back to work, here is a quote from the late Steve Jobs that resonates with me very much at this moment. Enjoy! and…Happy Monday ๐Ÿ™‚

“Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure — these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart. … Stay hungry. Stay foolish.” -Steve Jobs

One week left: What’s next for Oimei Co.?

With just one week left to reach our fund raising goal on StartSomeGood.com; many people have been asking me what’s next for Oimei Co.?

Currently, we’ve raised just over 50% towards our goal with the support of 66 backers!!

A total of $4,210 so far! Our goal is $8,100 to fully implement the project.

  1. So what happens if I don’t reach my goal?
    I can still get things started! And will continue to search/apply for grants and other fund raising methods. Any suggestions? ๐Ÿ˜›
  2. What are we going to do with the money raised so far?
    The amount raised thus far will cover start up and pre-revenue costs listed on our campaign page. Here.

    I have been very fortunate with FREE help ranging from advice, logo design, media footage such as my campaign pitch, promo material for my campaign (fliers etc.) and even free food & beer from my dear friends who think I’ve gone mad. Though none of them expect anything in return, I’d love to reimburse them with a bit of cash or a nice home cooked meal!

    Aside from all the wonderful help; I’ve been doing everything else alone and it’s about time I get some expert help to pick up the speed! With the funds raised so far, I’ll be hiring someone for web development to get the site fully functioning properly. I will be visiting the artisan villages again (this time with some money) in the North of Thailand to gather more stories, footage and of course; pillows! There, I will also figure out the logistics and all that fun stuff which includes the cost of getting the goodies to the west (distribution). I will get some packaging and promotional material printed to get us started. Ultimately, many steps closer to getting our shop up!Not to worry, I will be keeping you updated each step of the way ๐Ÿ˜‰

    All of this talk is getting me very excited to finally dive into what’s been months in planning and spreading the word. It will definitely be a lot of work BUTI’d like to announce that I’ve got myself a partner!I am very excited to have some extra hands and a friend alongside the journey. Soon, I will write a post introducing her and our plans for Oimei Co!

    For now; visit us on Facebook for a brief introduction of US.

  3. I’ve also been planning…yes, planning. As scatter brained as I am. I’ve been planning for the future; 6 mos. 1 year, 5 years?!? Many ideas in mind but the ultimate goal is getting the business to a point where it is self-sustainable so that we can support more artisans and their craft. Our hope is to gradually add more artisan partners and their beautiful goods to our shop. We will be updating frequently as we learn and grow. I hope this gives you a better idea of what’s next for Oimei Co!

Now, we have ONE WEEK left to reach our goal and

WE NEED YOUR HELP!!!

Please visit our Campaign page. Learn about our initiative. Donate and help us spread the word!

For other ways you can help: (click below)

A Chinese proverb to sum up thoughts for this post,

The journey is the reward.

So true. I will speak specifically about the journey ofย  this project which has been quite hazy from the very beginning. When I decided to start this project, I was totally lost in my mind not knowing what I should do next with my life; if I should go home, continue traveling or stay in Thailand. I was not able to work here due to my student visa so I was jobless and nearly out of money. A big part of me has been missing home, family and friends but somehow going home and searching for a job didn’t sit well with me.

When this idea came to mind, I have never felt so passionately and excited about anything else before. You hear this all the time; people telling you to do what you love and you’ll do well. It always seems like a load of crap right? Well, I’ve found something that has given me a purpose and something I enjoy. I know the chances of failing are high but I’ll keep trying.

This journey has and still is very confusing, scary and overwhelming at times. But it’s been nothing but beautiful. I’ve given up a lot of the “things” that used to keep me comfortable, I’ve opened myself up and embraced vulnerability and I try to share everything that I can…me. In return I’ve received so much support in this endeavor and I can not express how thankful I am for those of you who believe in me and this initiative.

Though the destination is unclear; the journey has definitely been a HUGE reward. Thanks to you ๐Ÿ™‚

Thank you for all the LOVE.